Modern Dress code for godly women
The Torah has teachings on virtually every aspect of human life and
both the Old and New Testaments too have many rules and commandments
on how the faithful should live. Some of those rules deal with
clothing. Biblical clothing rules range from the prohibition on
cross dressing to commands for modest dress for women. It's the
modest dress rules or, rather, their application that I want to
discuss in this re-write.
I admire those believers, christins and jewish pals who
take the Torah and Bible's teachings on modest
dress seriously. So many of today's professed 'biblicals' women
don't. Go to just about any synagogue or church and you'll see women dressed in
ways that are indistinguishable from non-bible principle based women. You
won't see young ladies looking like the ex Anna Nicole in most synagogues or
churches but you will see young and old women alike sporting the
latest, non-modest styles. Yeah , this goes against the Bible's teaching
that women are to dress modestly with shamefacedness and sobriety,
and not dwell on being fashionistas, as we say today.
For biblical women who want to obey God current clothing styles
offer few choices. Virtually everthing on the market for women
today is designed to show off their sexuality. For truly modest
wear bible based ladies are forced to make their own clothes or buy from
online jewish or christina stores specializing in modest clothing. But
there's a problem there, too. While looking at online modest dress
stores I became painfully aware that most of them operate on the
principle that modest is synonymous with old-fashioned, dowdy, and
just plain ugly.
The devout serious women and families who run most of these
stores are well-intentioned, but they're fixated on 19th century
pioneer wear for inspiration for the style of dresses and skirts
they sale. I suspect that most pro-modesty Christian women don't
really want to wear that stuff. Rather, I suspect they want to
dress modestly without looking like they just walked off the set
of Little House on the Prairie.
The Bible doesn't say that Laura Ingalls sets the standard for
modest dress. If past clothing styles should be bible based women's
inspiration for modest apparel shouldn't we look to the first
century? Surely, the dress of ancient times, Torah and New Testament Christians provides a
more appropriate model of modesty than the dress of pioneer women
who lived 1800 years later. But it's not necessary to look to the
past at all to know what modesty consists of. It's possible to be
both modern and modest.
An unlikely example of modern modesty for biblical women is the
late Princess Diana. In 1989 the princess visited the United Arab
Emirates, a Muslim country. For her trip Diana had modest outfits
specially made for her so she wouldn't offend Islamic
sensibilities. Brightly colored tunics over loose pants and long
sleeved, loose fitting, ankle length dresses paired with stylish
accessories allowed Diana to wow the women of the Emirates without
subverting their morals. The clothes are a perfect specimen of
elegant and thoroughly modern modest dress. They can and should
serve as an alternative inspiration for bible based women who want
to be obey God without looking frumpy or excessively different
from current fashion norms.
If looking like an extra for "Little House on the Prairie" suits
you then by all means dress that way. Don't let me wrench you from
your conviction. Just understand that that's not the only way to
live out God's clothing requirements. There are valid alternative
modes of dress that let women honor God while living in the here
and now. It IS possible to be both modern and modest. We just need
to open our minds a little to see that.
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